If you were to have 20 guys all polled on what the worst things about dating or trying to get women to go on dates with them was, I'm pretty sure that nearly all of them would agree that rejection is about the worst part of the process. Get rejected once and you may be able to bounce back from it. Get rejected over and over, and suddenly, you may just decide that it is easier not to put yourself out there. In fact, the last choice is what most guys end up doing at some point in their lives.
Rejection definitely is one of the worst aspects of dating. It's never fun to hear someone say NO to you asking them out on a date, and when it happens over and over and you don't really know why, it definitely can shake you up a bit and make you feel like maybe it's just better if you wait for the right woman to come along and forget about trying to get dates with women.
Of course, if you do that, then you are pretty much guaranteed that you are going to get lonely and frustrated. Because rejection stings so much, some guys kind of get this idea that maybe there is a way to eliminate rejection completely, so that they never have to go through it again.
So, is there a way to completely eliminate rejection?
No. It's part of the game. Expecting to never get rejected again is kind of like a guy shooting hoops and expecting to make 10 out of 10 every single time. It's just not a realistic expectation to think that there is a way to get rid of the possibility of being rejected by a woman. Well, there is one way to get around that, and that is to choose the option of never even trying to get a date with a woman, but who wants that?
There IS a way to reduce the chance that a woman does reject you, though.
The simplest way to reduce the possibility of getting rejected by a woman is to learn how to get your timing down so that you ask her when she is most likely to say YES to you. It still surprises me sometimes that so many guys fail to realize that the smallest difference in their timing can make a huge difference in what kind of response that a woman will give you. Timing tends to be one of the BIGGEST factors in why women will reject men when they ask for a number or a date.
Ask her out when she is just feeling a little bit of attraction towards you, and you may not like the answer that you get. Ask her out when you have escalated her attraction to the point where she is yearning for you to ask her out, and you will get a YES most of the time.
Rejection definitely is one of the worst aspects of dating. It's never fun to hear someone say NO to you asking them out on a date, and when it happens over and over and you don't really know why, it definitely can shake you up a bit and make you feel like maybe it's just better if you wait for the right woman to come along and forget about trying to get dates with women.
Of course, if you do that, then you are pretty much guaranteed that you are going to get lonely and frustrated. Because rejection stings so much, some guys kind of get this idea that maybe there is a way to eliminate rejection completely, so that they never have to go through it again.
So, is there a way to completely eliminate rejection?
No. It's part of the game. Expecting to never get rejected again is kind of like a guy shooting hoops and expecting to make 10 out of 10 every single time. It's just not a realistic expectation to think that there is a way to get rid of the possibility of being rejected by a woman. Well, there is one way to get around that, and that is to choose the option of never even trying to get a date with a woman, but who wants that?
There IS a way to reduce the chance that a woman does reject you, though.
The simplest way to reduce the possibility of getting rejected by a woman is to learn how to get your timing down so that you ask her when she is most likely to say YES to you. It still surprises me sometimes that so many guys fail to realize that the smallest difference in their timing can make a huge difference in what kind of response that a woman will give you. Timing tends to be one of the BIGGEST factors in why women will reject men when they ask for a number or a date.
Ask her out when she is just feeling a little bit of attraction towards you, and you may not like the answer that you get. Ask her out when you have escalated her attraction to the point where she is yearning for you to ask her out, and you will get a YES most of the time.
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